A lot of guys like to propose engagement on certain Occasions. We call them Occasions because they are noteworthy dates that will remain noteworthy whether they become a part of your proposal or not.
First, there are dates of personal significance dates that carry a meaning only you and your girlfriend would truly understand. Looking back at the history of your relationship, are there any days of the year that stick out? When did you meet? When was your first date? How about your first kiss? Another great choice is the anniversary of your relationship (especially if you wont be able to use it as your wedding day). You should also consider dates that reflect personal accomplishment. If you and your girlfriend met as freshmen in college, for instance, maybe Graduation Day would be a good time to propose.
The second kind of Occasions are holidays three of which are a given. First and foremost is Valentines Day. We probably dont have to tell you why so many guys gravitate towards it. After all, the whole point is to celebrate those we adore! Christmas is another popular option. Christmas is all about giving. And what better gift can you give than a shiny, new ring and the promise of your love? New Years is also an ideal time. There is hope in a new year its a fresh start, a beginning. Sort of like a metaphor for marriage. Its kind of heartwarming, actually.
Still, there are things you should ask yourself before proposing engagement on any of these holidays.
New Years, for one, is a time to let loose and party. Maybe thats fitting. But maybe it isnt. It depends. If youre planning to pop the question when the ball drops, will she think this is perfect… or perfectly corny? Be honest. Every girls got her own tastes. Ask yourself: How romantic should I make this? And what can I do to ensure its romantic enough?
As for Christmas, where will you spend it? And who, more importantly, will you spend it with? Perhaps you plan to propose while opening gifts with her family Christmas morning. Well, how do you think shell react to this? Will she care if youre still wearing pajamas? Will she love that her loved ones are there to share the moment, or will she wish youd proposed in a more intimate setting? Whatever you think shell prefer, make sure Christmas can cater to it. If it can, great. But if it cant, get over it. There are other options.
Last but not least among the Big Three Holidays is Valentines Day an obvious choice. Believe it or not, though, some women think its too obvious, and this can work against you. It can also work for you (think reverse psychology). Again, its a matter of personal preference. Take stock: Who is she? Whats her sensibility? Has she made a big deal about Valentines Day in the past? Or has she treated it like any other day?
Of course, all three of these holidays occur within a short time of each other, which is great if you want to propose in the winter but what if you dont? Other holidays, while less obvious, provide excellent opportunities for Occasion proposals as well. Whens the next time you and your girlfriend will both have off from work? Memorial Day? Labor Day? Thanksgiving? Arrange to spend some extra time together, and use that time to propose. The Fourth of July is a perfect choice. Who wouldnt want a proposal full of fireworks?
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